Image is a screen-capture of a headline reading Cynthia Nixon On Being Gay: ‘For Me It’s A Choice’, above a photograph of Cynthia Nixon.
jeunetbelle:

tylercoates:

Well. Now Cynthia Nixon has gone and pissed me off. 

“America Blog writer John Aravosis was among those to criticize Nixon’s choice of words… ‘Every religious right hatemonger is now going to quote this woman every single time they want to deny us our civil rights.’”
I can definitely relate to what she’s saying, but only because I’ve been in the same place. Straight people can’t relate to that and saying that being gay is a choice really conflicts with the idea of being “born this way” which I think is the only way many people begin to understand the roots of homosexuality.
Nobody comes out of this looking good.

I take your point, Sarah, but to me it seems like Aravosis and company come out looking a lot worse.
I mean, when did political inconvenience become a valid reason to criticize a queer woman for the way she describes her own sexuality?  Exactly what kind of world is Aravosis working towards?  One where people can have civil rights as long as they’re prepared to subscribe to one particular model of human sexuality and describe themselves in its terms even if it doesn’t fit them?
It’s worth just comparing a couple of Nixon’s comments with some of Aravosis’ response.  Here’s Nixon:

I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me.
…
Why can’t it be a choice?  Why is that any less legitimate?

Here’s Aravosis (warning for binarism and ‘splaining):

What she means is that she’s bisexual, and doesn’t quite get that most people aren’t able to have sexual romantic relationships with both men and women because they’re just not into both genders.  She is into both genders.  And that’s fine.  But she needs to learn how to choose her words better…

Allow me to get sarcastic here, because, hey, wow, I would definitely like to sign up for the new rainbow utopia where your sexuality is whatever Mr John Aravosis tells you it is.  That absolutely sounds better than the one where people get to define their own identities and it doesn’t matter whether those identities are chosen or innate or constructed or whatever because it is generally understood that someone’s identity is their identity and that alone deserves a bit of bleeding respect.
Okay, at this point my first draft of this post turned into an angry link-filled rant about how objectionable Aravosis is, but you can google him yourselves if you want to know about that.  That isn’t the point because he isn’t the only person saying this kind of thing.  The point is:
If some people are going to use a queer person’s account of their own identity to bolster anti-queer bigotry, how about criticizing the bigots, not the queer person?
If some ‘allies’ are only okay with queer sexuality as long as it’s innate and can’t be helped, how about challenging that view, not shushing anyone who isn’t prepared to collude with it?
If we want a world where people can be open about their sexuality, how about supporting people who are open about their sexuality?
If we’re trying to make things better for people, how about prioritizing and listening to actual people, not treating them like obstructions to ‘the cause’?
Basically, how about having a movement that tries to be what it wants the world to become?

Image is a screen-capture of a headline reading Cynthia Nixon On Being Gay: ‘For Me It’s A Choice’, above a photograph of Cynthia Nixon.

jeunetbelle:

tylercoates:

Well. Now Cynthia Nixon has gone and pissed me off. 

“America Blog writer John Aravosis was among those to criticize Nixon’s choice of words… ‘Every religious right hatemonger is now going to quote this woman every single time they want to deny us our civil rights.’”

I can definitely relate to what she’s saying, but only because I’ve been in the same place. Straight people can’t relate to that and saying that being gay is a choice really conflicts with the idea of being “born this way” which I think is the only way many people begin to understand the roots of homosexuality.

Nobody comes out of this looking good.

I take your point, Sarah, but to me it seems like Aravosis and company come out looking a lot worse.

I mean, when did political inconvenience become a valid reason to criticize a queer woman for the way she describes her own sexuality?  Exactly what kind of world is Aravosis working towards?  One where people can have civil rights as long as they’re prepared to subscribe to one particular model of human sexuality and describe themselves in its terms even if it doesn’t fit them?

It’s worth just comparing a couple of Nixon’s comments with some of Aravosis’ response.  Here’s Nixon:

I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me.

Why can’t it be a choice?  Why is that any less legitimate?

Here’s Aravosis (warning for binarism and ‘splaining):

What she means is that she’s bisexual, and doesn’t quite get that most people aren’t able to have sexual romantic relationships with both men and women because they’re just not into both genders.  She is into both genders.  And that’s fine.  But she needs to learn how to choose her words better…

Allow me to get sarcastic here, because, hey, wow, I would definitely like to sign up for the new rainbow utopia where your sexuality is whatever Mr John Aravosis tells you it is.  That absolutely sounds better than the one where people get to define their own identities and it doesn’t matter whether those identities are chosen or innate or constructed or whatever because it is generally understood that someone’s identity is their identity and that alone deserves a bit of bleeding respect.

Okay, at this point my first draft of this post turned into an angry link-filled rant about how objectionable Aravosis is, but you can google him yourselves if you want to know about that.  That isn’t the point because he isn’t the only person saying this kind of thing.  The point is:

  • If some people are going to use a queer person’s account of their own identity to bolster anti-queer bigotry, how about criticizing the bigots, not the queer person?
  • If some ‘allies’ are only okay with queer sexuality as long as it’s innate and can’t be helped, how about challenging that view, not shushing anyone who isn’t prepared to collude with it?
  • If we want a world where people can be open about their sexuality, how about supporting people who are open about their sexuality?
  • If we’re trying to make things better for people, how about prioritizing and listening to actual people, not treating them like obstructions to ‘the cause’?
  • Basically, how about having a movement that tries to be what it wants the world to become?

Video description / transcript here.

silentpunk:

bitemebeautiful:

Meet the really lovely Holly Rae, brave enough to film the first video for the new feminist vlog channel ThosePeskyDames (of which I am a part). This week is introductions week, so keep an eye out and every day you can meet a new member of our lovely team.

 Hey I just met Holly Rae this weekend! She’s so cool and pretty and stuff!

All five daily vloggers have done their intro posts now and they all seem pretty nifty.  I don’t always get time to watch video-based things but I’m gonna subscribe to this one and see how it goes.

Summary: a video description and transcript for the first video on the new YouTube channel ThosePeskyDames.  The video is in this post.

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In which I am perhaps uncharitable about a proposal for a new ‘global affairs’ tag.

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This is a new kind of project, and I don’t know if it will work

evewithanapple:

But I want to give it a shot. If you live in Canada, you’re probably aware of the disruption in postal delivery right now- what you might not know is the cause. The original rotating strikes (which still allowed for mail delivery) were in response to potential changes in health and safety protection and wages. The workers went on strike to try and protect their rights, but they were still trying to do their jobs to the best of their ability. The current situation is not their fault.

It’s not even Canada Post’s fault, though they did aggravate things. In response to the rotating strikes, they locked their workers out of the workplace, effectively halting mail delivery altogether. It’s sort of a “no, I dumped YOU” strategy- the workers can’t be on strike if they can’t get into the workplace. So things were essentially at a standstill- nobody was delivering mail, nobody was on strike, and both parties had no choice but to try and negotiate.

And then … the federal government stepped in. Stephen Harper’s Tories are trying to push “back-to-work” legislation through- a law that will force the Post workers to return to their jobs without having any of their demands met. Essentially, they’re trying to break the union. If this bill goes through, the government will be able to force workers back to unsafe working conditions, back to unfair wages, and back to no medical benefits or usable pensions. They are trying to rob unions of the power to protect their workers. Remember those Triangle posts I was making a few days ago? Under this legislation, employees could be forced back to an employer who kept them under those conditions. And there’s nothing they could do about it.

We have to stop this. We have to stop this now. The NDP are doing their best to dely the proceedings, but they can only drag their feet for so long. We need to make our voices heard, and let the government know that this is not okay, and we won’t stand for it. A Canada that breaks unions isn’t a Canada I want to live in.

If you’re interested in helping to organize a protest- and if you live in or around the Hamilton-Wentworth area- message me, and I’ll send you my e-mail address so we can discuss it further. If you’re not in the area, please pass this on. I’ve seen Tumblr pull behind causes like this before, and we need this desperately. We need to make our voices heard, and we need it now.

I don’t know the ins and outs of this situation but some of you live in Canada — hi! — and might be interested in some pro-union activity.

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WONDERFUL. 522 out of 650 MPs don’t show up to vote; Dorries has managed to pass a bill that will have us teaching abstinence only sex ed to girls. (Yes, just girls.) Either I’ve stepped in a time machine or I’m in America…

torayot:

whatfreshhellisthis:

My MP didn’t bother showing up. Did yours?

eeeeuurrgghhhhhhhh

EEEEEEUUUUUUUURRRGGGHHHHH

In the interests of full whatchamacallit I should point out that this bill has not been ‘passed’.  It’s been given a first reading in the House of Commons.  The first reading of a bill is usually a formality.  The second reading is when MPs debate the general principles of the bill.  If it gets past its second reading then it goes to committee stage, where a committee will scrutinize the bill in detail and suggest amendments.  Then the whole House debates the proposed amendments, and then after that there’s a third reading where no further amendments can be made but the MPs vote to approve or reject the whole bill.  If it’s approved it then goes to the House of Lords where they do the same process but in a posher and more leisurely manner.

Also it looks to me like this is some kind of private member’s bill, meaning that it hasn’t got government backing.  The government can choose to back it or kill it, or it can decide not to take a position and just let individual MPs vote however they like.

The second reading is scheduled for 20 January 2012.  That’s when you need to see what the government does.  There’s plenty of time for anyone who’s concerned about this to contact their MP or otherwise protest.

The link above seems to lead somewhere not terribly relevant, but here is the brief first reading debate.  This is an explanation of the procedure for passing a bill.

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torayot:

totheexperts:

[image: the first page of the NO2AV leaflet, with much of the information labelled as misleading or irrelevant].
[Most of original post omitted: click the link to read.]

Jamie was very >:C at the latest batch of No to AV leaflets that arrived at his flat.

No I wasn’t.  I am a civil servant and therefore have no opinions about the ‘no’ campaign’s persistent attempts to confuse and scare people with arguments that they must have been told are provably, indisputably, mathematically false.

torayot:

totheexperts:

[image: the first page of the NO2AV leaflet, with much of the information labelled as misleading or irrelevant].

[Most of original post omitted: click the link to read.]

Jamie was very >:C at the latest batch of No to AV leaflets that arrived at his flat.

No I wasn’t.  I am a civil servant and therefore have no opinions about the ‘no’ campaign’s persistent attempts to confuse and scare people with arguments that they must have been told are provably, indisputably, mathematically false.

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My textbook just said Cairo was a Middle Eastern city.

dinokitten:

… Isn’t Egypt in Africa?

Ugh, the whole concept of ‘the middle east’ is a bit messed up.  It doesn’t make the slightest bit of geographical sense.  As I understand it, the ‘middle east’ is what Anglophones used to call central Asia, going maybe as far west as Persia / Iran, while the ‘near east’ was the term for the Arabian peninsula, Turkey, the eastern Mediterranean (also known as the Levant), and so on.  Which, in itself, is obviously very Euro-centric, because east of where, and near to what?

But the disappearance of ‘near east’ and the way ‘middle east’ has moved west to replace it isn’t even based on any messed-up reasoning like that, it’s just a result of the fact that during the second world war the Allies notionally divided Asia into two spheres of military operation, one called ‘far east’ and one called, for some reason, ‘middle east’ rather than ‘near east’, and the ‘middle east’ included the old ‘near east’ as well.  And so for that generation of English-speakers, for whom the war shaped so many things, the term stuck.

But yes, the way people use it now shows how ostensibly geographical terminology is used to disguise the fact that what’s actually being discussed is culture and / or race.  ’Middle eastern’ is often equated with ‘Arab’ (although of course most Iranians aren’t Arabs, and neither are most of the various ethnic groups that live in Turkey), hence the inclusion of parts of north Africa.  Which in turn alerts us to the way ‘Africa’ is usually used to mean ‘that place where the black people come from’ as if north Africa were non-existent.  And never mind that part of Turkey is in continental Europe.

Sorry, ranting.  I mean, I know culture and race and religion are so blurry and complex that no broad terms are ever going to be satisfactory, and we do need broad terms because you can’t go around saying things like ‘Recent weeks have seen a number of popular protest-movements in That Set Of Countries Corresponding Approximately To The Umayyad Caliphate But Not Including Spain’.  But it’s the way terminology that sounds geographical is used to convey meanings that aren’t primarily to do with territory and physical location.  It’s like the geo-political equivalent of ‘colour-blind’ casting (though without the extra helping of ableism in that phrase) or ‘I don’t see colour’: it disguises what’s really being talked about, and so it makes it less obvious when what’s really being talked about is kinda racist.  Which often it is.

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whatwillsuffice:

“For as long as I’ve been alive, crosshairs and bull’s-eyes have been an accepted part of the graphical lexicon when it comes to political debates.”

The awesome stupidity of the calls to tamp down political speech in the wake of the Giffords shooting. - By Jack Shafer - Slate Magazine

I mean, I read bullshit like this and I think to myself: okay, but not every political culture has this problem.  Perhaps someone from Canada or the UK following me will be able to disagree, but having followed political discussion in both those places for years I am trying and failing to think of the use of similar imagery.

Nearest I can think of for the UK is the Liberal Democrats’ ‘decapitation’ strategy in the 2005 election (i.e. concentrating resources on defeating high-profile Conservative candidates).  The term wasn’t part of their publicity material, it was just how the strategy was referred to internally.  It leaked, and of course it’s possible that they leaked it themselves in order to sound tough, but I don’t think anyone would’ve dreamed of using it on posters.  And they got a certain amount of flak for it anyway.

Regrettably ‘decapitation’ seems to have got into the political lexicon now: there’s been some discussion of the National Union of Students trying to ‘decapitate’ the Liberal Democrats (using the mechanism that the government has proposed to put in place to allow constituents to trigger by-elections).

But otherwise metaphors of violence are sufficiently incongruous and surprising that the Guardian ran an April Fools’ story in 2010 based on the idea of Labour running a poster campaign in which Gordon Brown challenged David Cameron to a fist-fight.

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Naming rape complainants

Just seen this from Naomi Wolf about the anonymity of complainants in rape prosecutions.  She argues that anonymity is a Victorian relic, undermines prosecutions, fails to challenge attitudes that prop up rape culture, and is in principle insulting to women.

I think there are some… problems with the article.

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sadydoyle:

“Sadly this whole debacle only serves to prove Tkacik’s most salient point in the piece: Forcing some sort of dogmatic equivalence upon every action that technically conforms to the legal definition of “rape” seems guaranteed only to condemn the discourse to an eternal rhetorical circle jerk of slut-shaming/finger-wagging/conspiracy theorizing/etc.”

I’m writing this right after I learned that Moe Tkacik lost her job. I learned that at around 3 AM. And of course, the media narrative (like you see above; it’s from the Observer) is all, “mean feminists took Moe Tkacik’s job away because she doesn’t get herself in a tizzy about rape,” and that’s inaccurate. Sorry: It just is. I can’t make anyone let you go from a job if they don’t want to let you go, and I can’t make anyone let you go if you did nothing wrong at that job. I can’t just stand there and yell at random for that one professional, friendly, highly skilled bank rep’s supervisor until that one bank rep’s supervisor comes down and fires the guy, especially if I never ask the supervisor to fire him in the first place. Which I never did; not publicly, not privately. I won’t go into that article again — we had about four basic problems with Assange coverage, four things for which we said we would not stand, and she purposefully asked us to read an article which had every single one of those problems — but no matter how bad it was, I DIDN’T WANT ANYONE TO GET FIRED OVER IT.

Now that I’m some heroic super-powerful ultrablogger feminist New Hope for Activism For-Ever, and feeling the necessary bite from that — first they call you the Messiah, then they crucify you, because we wanted a better Messiah than this, anyway — and the inevitable weird envy and suspicion around that, I kind of especially don’t love that there is this media narrative around me “getting” “someone” “fired” on Christmas with my feminist superpowers, because see, I wasn’t a good girl, I was a nasty cunt all along, you were right to hate me, I’m a nasty dirty mean evil bitch who can’t possibly have a point, and the victim here isn’t the two women currently getting credible death threats, the victim is Moe Tkacik, the victim here isn’t all the survivors e-mailing me, the victim is Moe Tkacik, the victim here isn’t truth or the protesters dropping out because they’ve been harassed too badly or threatened at their homes, the victim is Moe Tkacik.

Yeah, I don’t love that. I’m not happy about the timing, AT ALL. Because now I get to take all the blame from anyone who agrees with me that, from the outside, firing Moe looks like a huge overreaction to what she did. I was ANGRY AS FUCK about that piece, and I said some MEAN THINGS, but I just wanted her to redact the names. The rest of the blatantly false “it was just bad sex” stuff, well, I didn’t have the energy to even analyze it. I just wanted the names taken down. But there you go. Fired for Christmas “because of me,” and we all have a mean feminist story to tell around the campfire, because clearly what I wanted was for Moe Tkacik to lose her job and never work again.

Except for the part where I was a huge fan of her writing. Except for that. And consider: We went up against two huge, powerful, wealthy, white, straight men, and got them to give us one tiny fraction of what we deserved and wanted. We went up, in much smaller number, against one woman? And she lost her fucking job.

I don’t care what she wrote. (Well, I do. Because it was unacceptable. But.) That shit’s fucked up. The men face no lasting consequences, and a woman suffers. That shit is FUCKED UP.

You could fire Keith Olbermann. I don’t care at this point. Fire the dude. He’ll be fine. But for one woman (aside from the non-Twitterable Naomi Wolf) who did the same bad things that these men did — and yes, those bad things were very, very bad, and we were right to protest them — to have 0.01% of their power, and 0.01% of their wealth, and for her to be the only one to have her life ruined, at least temporarily, over this?

Yay, fucking feminism. Feminism yay.

And yeah, what she wrote was unconscionable. The problem with Assange isn’t that a condom broke, it isn’t that he’s a misogynist or has a “smallish penis”; she knows this. Even I would not recommend putting a man on trial and/or in jail for misogyny or a small dick. The problem with Assange is that he may have raped two women, and journalists like Moe Tkacik KEEP PRETENDING IT COULDN’T HAVE HAPPENED OR ISN’T A BIG FUCKING DEAL. There’s no excuse for putting scare quotes around “rape,” no excuse for not getting the allegations right, no excuse for basically telling people RAPE isn’t a big deal, no excuse for telling people THESE two women weren’t raped or if they were the US’s MASSIVELY fucked-up rape laws wouldn’t allow them to convict their rapist so WHY BOTHER, why not start a FACEBOOK PAGE for all that CONSENSUAL BAD SEX you’re having.

But, even if women do unconscionable shit — that article was unconscionable, aside from just the obvious problems with the content, I was just kicking back with a drink and watching the protest wind down and wondering what I needed to do to facilitate its end, and then I see this article by one of my favorite writers, and I’m like “oh my god, Moe noticed us! Can’t wait to read it” and then I get HIT RIGHT BACK IN THE FACE with EVERYTHING I HAVE BEEN PROTESTING FOR THE PAST WEEK and I have to start RIGHT BACK OVER, and she wanted it to happen on some level because she called our attention to it, she fucking trolled useven if women do unconscionable shit, they’re always more vulnerable. They get fired. The men don’t. Moore gets his rep rehabilitated for saying basic shit on TV. Olbermann gets a fucking vacay because CIA honeypot spies have invaded his Twitter account, RIIIIIIGHT.

It wasn’t cool that Tkacik got fired. I was out of my mind angry, but I still didn’t want that. But one of you wanted it, in my name. Left a comment under the troll-ass name “ifiwereyoureditoridfireyou.” DUDE? I get that you’re angry. But you got your wish. A woman lost her job. She had to pay with way more than either of us wanted her to pay; all I wanted was a damn correction and apology; we got that, and now she’s out of a job, and now they can pin it on us. GOOD JOB, YO.

The sentence above means “don’t act like all rapes are bad.” I’m sorry: I’ve read it five times now. That’s what it means. It means “don’t act like all rapes are bad, because some rapes are not that bad.” It’s unacceptable for a person to type this and publish it, especially if she’s getting paid; I’m aghast that someone could actually think this. And now the media is saying that we “proved her right,” somehow, because she lost her job, and look at what mean cunts we are for taking rape seriously.

I mean yeah. She did a bad thing, which is fucked up. She faced consequences that were disproportionate (if they were only consequences for the one bad thing), which is fucked up. We’re being made to look like the villains, and the badness of the thing she did is lost; that’s fucked up. We shouldn’t have to choose between caring about rape and caring about Tkacik losing her job.

Oh, please. You were waiting for there to be a victim in all this, so you could go back to thinking or saying that “all rapes aren’t that bad” and that we should stop taking them “so seriously.” You’re fucking RELIEVED you don’t have to treat us as credible people with a credible point, right now. But also, the victim had to be female, apparently.

But dudes? When you protest, you protest non-violently. You make sure no-one gets hurt, and that includes the people you’re protesting. I really wish you hadn’t asked some woman to get fired, in my name.

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Fees and protests

Hi folks.

I bet precisely none of you has been spending time lately wondering what I think about the Commons vote on tuition fees and the protests in London and all that.  But in case you have wondered that, or if, for example, you’ve been posting about it and have noticed that I’ve been Liking your various other posts but not those ones, can I just say:

I’m not going to be saying anything about it for now, or agreeing with anything that anyone else says about it.  Not because I don’t care or because I don’t think it matters or because I haven’t got views or because I don’t agree with what you’re posting.  Because I work for the state and I need to check out exactly what I can and can’t say without getting fired.  ‘Cause my getting fired would not benefit anyone on any side of any debate.

The male philosopher suspicious of feminism ..

carters-world:

After a young male gay! grad student stated there were no women in philosophy in the Classical World, I got over my nausea and decided to read up on female pythagoreans, epicureans. Why isn’t there even a biography of Plotina….Anyway I just saw this below. I daresay he never thought about unmarried, independent Leontion.

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http://beingawomaninphilosophy.wordpress.com/

I am a male philosopher and these are my impressions of women in philosophy for what they are worth. I have just as much respect for women philosophers in any area of philosophy as I have for men in an area of philosophy, except for one area: feminism. I am suspicious of feminism for several reasons. First, I think a lot of it (though not all) is very poor quality, often an embarrassment to the profession. (Most male philosophers think the same, even if they won’t admit it publicly, and so do many women philosophers who don’t work in feminism.) Second, I think feminism is too political, and philosophy should not have so much of a political agenda. I often think it is as much, if not more, political than it is philosophical. Third, not only is it political, but it is also very, very radical, often being anti-men, anti-family, even anti-children, and many feminists are lesbians as well (perhaps even by choice, because they hate men). I regard this type of feminist as a real oddity, even a total eccentric, a figure of amusement and of sociological interest, rather than someone to be taken seriously. Fourth, I have a bit of a stereotype of feminists, I guess, whenever I meet one: that they secretly hate me (or at least are very suspicious of me, and don’t really trust me or any man), and that they might be angry, disagreeable bitches, no matter how they appear on the surface. This puts me off wanting to discuss my views with them, or wanting to read them. This is a pity because I agree one hundred percent that women have to put up with a lot of terrible harassment, discrimination, and other problems detailed in earlier posts. But whenever I see a woman listing “feminism” among her interests, I become suspicious, even though I know that not all feminists fall into these categories and that the topic is worthy of discussion, and that some are doing very good work in that field.

Oh my what the for goodness’ I don’t even.

Is this some kind of ‘Poe’s law’ situation?

(Deep breath.)

Okay.  Let’s set aside for the moment the fact that this passage absolutely reeks of misogyny.  No, wait, let’s not set that aside.  But let’s not bother saying much more about it because the world consists almost entirely of people who noticed that as soon as they read it and people who didn’t notice it and won’t suddenly realize it’s true just because I say it.

In stead, because this bit of text that Horténsia has quoted above has certain similarities with the ‘lack of higher-level discourse’ issue that we’ve been hearing about lately, let’s concentrate on this chap’s second point, the only one that isn’t flagrantly misogynistic: ‘I think feminism is too political, and philosophy should not have so much of a political agenda.’  Let’s do some higher-level discourse on that.

Axiom: My behaviour is the only thing over which I have any control.  It’s the only thing my choices can directly affect.  My behaviour in turn will have effects on various things, but those effects are all indirect.  So the only choices I have to make are choices about my behaviour, and making choices about my behaviour is pretty much all I’m capable of doing as a human being.  Apart from involuntary things like breathing, behaving this way or that is all I can do.

As a corollary, behaving this or that way is something I must do and something I cannot avoid doing.  I can’t not have any behaviour.  I can’t not make choices about what to do and not to do.  Even choosing to do absolutely nothing would be a choice about what to do or not to do.  Since I must behave in some way, and since I cannot eliminate the intervention of my consciousness in the process, I have no choice but to make these choices.  So choices about my behaviour are both the only kind of choice I can make and also a kind of choice I cannot avoid making.

Given that I must make choices about my behaviour and that I can do nothing but make choices about my behaviour, it seems to me that a fairly important question is going to be, How do I decide what choices to make about my behaviour?  In fact it seems to me that that’s got to be pretty much the only important question.  Any other question is important to me only to the extent that it helps me answer that one.

The branch of philosophy that addresses that question is ethics.  The study of choices and the qualities of character that shape those choices.  So as far I’m concerned ethics is the central part of philosophy, because it’s the part that deals with the only thing that I can do and the thing I can’t help doing: making choices about how I behave.

Now, another axiom: I live among other people.  ‘Being in the world is being with others’, as some guy said once, probably in German.  And these people are fundamentally like me in their thoughts and feelings and experience of the world.  Some are much more similar to me than others, of course, but we’re all similar in fairly basic ways, ways in which I am not similar to, say, a tree.  The other people I experience seem to react to and be affected by my behaviour in a way that I can understand and empathize with.  I recognize my own emotions and instincts and thoughts in their reactions.  (This is true to a lesser extent of animals also, but that’s a topic for another post, I think, because this one is going to be more than long enough without it.)

People’s reactions to things matter to me because I am capable of, and can’t really help, empathizing with them to a certain extent.  I can break a tree-branch and be largely unmoved by the experience because I have no way of understanding what it’s like to be a tree-branch getting broken, and the tree-branch can’t tell me.  Any theory I have about it is sheer fantasy.  But if I broke someone’s arm I would, I strongly suspect (for I have not tried it!), find it impossible to be unmoved by the experience, because I can and do and must empathize with the other person and have some vague idea of what it might be like to be a person having their arm broken; and even if I have no concept of it before I do it you can bet that the person whose arm I’m breaking will give me an idea of what it’s like, and that will resonate with experiences and feelings I’ve had.

So breaking someone’s arm will be a far more meaningful and significant experience for me than breaking a tree-branch will.  And by and large the acts and behaviours that affect me most strongly will be those that produce effects in other people, because the effects I produce in other people are effects I recognize as being similar to my own most affecting experiences.  I am moved, emotionally and intellectually, by other people’s reactions and actions.  Empathizing with them, I find myself reacting to what I perceive and / or imagine to be their emotions and thoughts.  And at the same time they provoke me to have emotions and thoughts.  We’re all tangled up together and we can’t ignore each other.  We are, as some other guy said in some other language, a social animal.

Which branch of philosophy deals with this mess?  Well, ethics again, but most particularly the sub-set of ethics that is politics.  Politics is the study of groups of people and how they organize themselves and, often, how they distribute power and authority among themselves.  The personal is political, some lady said at some point, but most especially the interpersonal is political.  And since, as I said earlier, all questions are secretly questions about how to behave, the political is personal.  If I ask, How can power best be distributed in society? I am secretly asking, What distribution of power in society should I support and work towards? which is in turn really just a cover for, When faced with a choice that might have an impact on the way people relate to one another, what should I choose?  Who to vote for is an ethical question.  Whether to vote is an ethical question.  Every political question is an ethical question.  And ethical questions are the only questions that matter because ethical answers are the only answers I can act on and acting is the only thing I can do.

So, Mr Male Philosopher, what was that you said?  Oh yes: ‘I think feminism is too political, and philosophy should not have so much of a political agenda.’  WHAT.  To me this sounds like the equivalent of ‘I think the issues feminism addresses are too important, and philosophy should only deal with issues that have no importance.’

Feminism is about how individual people interact with one another, and it is also about how power and authority are distributed within society.  So yes, it’s political.  Like other social justice movements, it analyses how a particular way of categorizing people (by gender) affects the distribution of power in society, and also how it affects the moral psychology of individual people.  It proposes, in broad terms, a particular way in which society as a whole and the moral reasoning of individuals could be changed so as to be better for people and to help people be better.  In doing this it’s in the highly acclaimed philosophical company of schools like utilitarianism, Daoism, Kantianism, Aristotelianism, Confucianism, Rawlsianism, and so on.  You may think it does it less effectively than some or all of these, but the fact that it does it at all is very far from being a reason to disparage it.  In fact your belief that ‘philosophy should not have so much a political agenda’ suggests to me that you have a very narrow and indeed, in my view, totally misconceived notion of what philosophy actually is.

But if you want to regard philosophy that way, fine.  It isn’t important to me for feminism or any other social justice movement to be regarded as a philosophy because I am not such an intellectual snob as to believe that philosophy is the only field in which rigorous and worthwhile thought about important questions occurs.  What I do want to say to you is that feminism, whether it is philosophy or not, is not ‘too political’.  It is exactly as political as it should be.  It is a critique of the distribution of power in groups and the distribution of respect in people’s minds.  This is important because it affects how people choose to behave.  And how people should choose to behave is the only important question there is.